Welcome to The Musings of a Car-Guard! I am reminded of a Bible verse that tells us that “The purposes of a man’s heart are deep waters, but a man of understanding draws them out.” Proverbs 20:5.
The ‘desert’ (look at the introductory post) has provided me with the time and occasion for self-reflection and introspection.
I am grateful for that! I have learned some good lessons in the ‘desert’. One of them was taught to me by a taxi driver.
Yes, you heard me, a taxi driver.
My opinion of taxi drivers whom I don’t know personally is that they are arrogant, insensitive, prone to violence, often limited in education, and rude. I am sure you will come up with more adjectives to describe taxi drivers.
The taxi driver, a black man, pulls into the desert parking lot. Parks his taxi and goes on his errand.
After a little while, he arrives. He pulls out of his parking spot.
As he approaches me he does the most unexpected thing.
Yep, you guessed it. With respect, and by extension of his arm, he gives me some money.
Here I’m thinking to myself (lighting quick), “This taxi driver is actually giving me money.”
Honestly, my jaw dropped.
I said to him, “I didn’t expect this. I’m surprised.”
“I didn’t know taxi drivers gave car-guards money.”, I continued.
His lips parted revealing a smile and as he did so he said, “Not all of us are the same.”
That was the most humbling moment for me.
His word pierced my heart like a hot knife through butter.
I was ashamed of judging him.
I repeat that story over and over again because I am prone to judging people before they have given me cause to.
Ever since that day, I have struck a friendship with many taxi drivers with who I share that story on a regular basis.
The purposes of our heart are deep waters. That day in the desert I was sensitized to cancer in my heart. That cancer is what often leads me to keep certain types of people at a distance from me.
Let’s be honest here.
Most of us have a caste system in our hearts.
I know I did, until someone said, “Not all of us are the same.”
Selvan Govender (Hons.Theol., M.Ed)
Pastor of The Safest Place on Earth
Mountview Secondary School, Room 27
Verulam, Durban, South Africa
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